What does a funeral celebrant actually do?

A celebrant helps you shape a ceremony that reflects the life, values and personality of your loved one. I guide you through each step, gathering stories, helping with structure, writing the ceremony and delivering it on the day with calm, steady support.

Can we decide who we would like as our celebrant?

Yes. You are always free to choose the celebrant who feels right for you and your family. This is a deeply personal moment and it matters that you feel at ease with the person guiding the ceremony. I collaborate with all funeral homes, so you are welcome to choose me regardless of which funeral director you are using. If you feel a connection with me, I would be honoured to support you; if not, I will always encourage you to choose someone who feels like the best fit.

Do you travel outside your main counties?

Yes. I cover Hampshire, Berkshire, Wiltshire and Oxfordshire with no additional travel cost. If your ceremony is further afield, I am still very happy to support you. We will simply talk through any travel costs together, gently and transparently.

What if we are not sure what we want yet?

That is completely normal. Many families begin with uncertainty. I will guide you gently through the options, offer suggestions and help you find the tone and structure that feels right.

Do we need to have any religious content?

Not at all. The ceremony can be completely non religious, gently spiritual, or include selected readings or prayers if that feels right for your family. There is no template; it is shaped entirely around your wishes.

How much can we personalise the service?

We take time to talk together about their life, their stories, the moments that made you smile and the qualities that shaped who they were. You can share whatever feels right, and from there I craft a ceremony that reflects them with grace, warmth and respect.

Can we include personal touches such as music, readings or symbolic moments?

Absolutely. Personal touches often become the most meaningful parts of a ceremony. Whether it is a favourite song, a poem, a moment of reflection or something unique to your family, I will help you weave it in naturally.

How long does a ceremony usually last?

Most ceremonies last between 20 and 40 minutes, depending on what you choose to include. There is no strict rule; it simply needs to feel right for you and honour the person you are remembering. The exact timing may also depend on the ceremony location’s schedule, such as whether you have a single or double slot.

What happens if we need to make last minute changes?

Life does not always follow a plan, especially at times like these. If something needs adjusting, whether it is a reading, a piece of music or a detail in the tribute, I am always happy to make adaptations. For music specifically, selections need to be confirmed at least two days before the ceremony, and some last minute changes may depend on the venue’s systems and schedule, but I will always help where I can.

Can we see what you will say before the day?

Yes. You are welcome to read it beforehand, request changes or simply trust me to deliver it on the day, whatever helps you feel most at ease.

How do we begin?

Simply get in touch. We will have a gentle, no pressure conversation about what you need, and from there we can take things one step at a time.